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Relationship Problems And Advice To Spice Things

Relationship Problems And Advice To Spice Things

Relationship problems and advice here and there spices up your relationship.  Tolerant and companionable are sweet ways to be, but a dash of daring and a sprinkle of surprises will perk up your marriage.

Here is some free relationship advice for the ladies:

Attend to your personal care.  Pamper yourself with an aromatic bath, style your hair, and dress up nicely.  Reinvent yourself.  Enhance your assets and make improvements both you and your partner will like.  Make it simple and inexpensive, just a subtle way of spicing up the attraction.

Make routines more pleasurable.  Share your chores, enjoy riding to work together, or join each other for lunch.  Sneak away from the kids.  Leave notes on pillows or in pockets, and spoon when you sleep.

Lose your many expectations.  They only make you remember what wasn’t and not what was.  Help him out a bit.  Why not drop a hint when a birthday or anniversary is coming up?  Tell him exactly what you like.  It may not always be his idea, but it will always be to your mutual enjoyment.  Don’t wait for him to read your mind, or you’ll end up disappointed, adding to your already long list of disappointments.  By the way, scrap that list.  Dwell on the happiest moments of your life.  You can reminisce on these together.             

Not every couple can afford to jet-set to a romantic hideaway whenever they feel like it.  It just doesn’t happen for everyone who’s dealing with a mortgage and college.  Improvise.  Visit the place where you met, your favorite restaurant, or stroll along the beach.  Hold hands.  Frolic like kids.  What the heck, you two deserve a break.

Relationship problems and advice for men only:

Say you love her.

Say it with flowers.  If she’s allergic to flowers, say it with chocolates.  If she stays away from sweets because they’re fattening, be tactful enough and give her something she likes.   Buy her that dress she’s been eyeing.  Get her that membership she’s wants.  Buy her some fruits.  Go all the way and buy her some groceries to save her the trip.  You don’t have to say it with diamonds, but if you want to then there’s no harm in that, is there?

Put her picture on your desk, and have pictures taken of you together.  Express interest in her hobbies, and invite her to yours.  You can have your own worlds, but you can bring her into yours.

Pamper her.  Ask how she is, and how her day went.  Take some of her chores when you know she’s really worn out.  Let her sleep a few hours more.  Wake her up with a kiss, or better yet, breakfast.  Give her time out from the kids, and let her have her peace in the house.  Take her on a holiday you both can afford.  Hug and embrace her as often as you can, just because.  

Whisper “sweet nothings.”  They make a girl’s knees turn to jelly.  Say it with your eyes, and say it with your lips.  Look at her the same way you did when you first fell in love.  Stare at her from across the room, not critically, but lovingly of course.  You’re the best person to know how really sexy she is.  Don’t wait for other men to tell her for you. Socialize with other women only on platonic, friendly terms.  Don’t let yourself ever hurt her that way.

If you only know a few, simple ways to say you love her; it doesn’t really matter, does it?  Just mean it.  Say it in not so many ways, but mean it.  That’s all she really cares about.  That’s why she loves you and why she’ll love you always.  It’s because you say what you mean and you mean what you say.  

And then lastly, if you have relationship problems and advice is needed, don’t hesitate to seek help! Lots of advice for relationship problems is free for grabs if you look for them.